In our opinion, love has no gender & love is love. So kiss who you wanna kiss, Netflix & Chill with who you wanna hun. We only have 1 damn life & we should all just feel comfy living it the way we want to. Nah mean?!
We caught up with Sydney (@sydneydavy) & her boo Kalo (@k.dollahz) to talk all things love & get their views on gender fluidity. They’re in the cutest ‘ship ever & we’re low-key obsessed! 😍😍😍
Scroll on down to find out more about these two gems…
1. Give us the 411 on who you are
Sydney: I’m an almost 21 year old, bisexual queen, working in the beauty & entertainment industry as a model & makeup artist 💄
Kalo: Tony Soprano’s long lost lovechild, DJ, overall fly guy, very queer. 🎶😎
2. Love is love & gender fluidity is the new norm. Your views?
Sydney: Let people be & do what they want. If they aren’t hurting anybody in the process, if they aren’t discriminating against anybody, if they aren’t projecting toxic ideals – then they should have the freedom to be who they are, date who they want, express themselves in ways that make them feel comfortable & love 👏 whoever 👏 they 👏 want! 👏
Kalo: Sydney took the words right out of my mouth! That’s one of the reasons why I 💓 her, ‘cos our shared values are the basis of our relationship, including how relaxed we feel about gender & how fluid it can be.
3. Fave couple thing to do?
Both: Lots of outdoor adventures, spontaneous dates, festivals & nights out! 💃 But also ditching a night out to cook together & watch movies in bed with our doggy child Ricco. 🐶
4. Piece of advice for those wanting to come out/transition?
Sydney: If you’re planning on coming out, do it in the way you want to, whatever that is 🙌 Your support system, whether it be your biological family or chosen family , will love you for who you genuinely are. Just remember, you’re not alone 📣📣📣
Kalo: Transitioning is something no one can really prepare you for ‘cos every person’s journey is different. I’d say the most important step in the process is getting mentally prepared to face the changes, so you fall in love with the process. A good support system will help you a lot with any challenges you might face along the way. ✊
5. Think & answer quick-fast:
💋 Track that gets Sydney moving to your beats…Minds Abalze by Godessa 🕺
💋 I’m in my feels when Kalo pulls me up to slow dance with him. So dreamy! 😍
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